Texas Love Advice
Plus Some Occasional Comments on the
State of the Popular Culture
L-R: Michael Mazocco, Wendy
R. Williams, Armistead Johnson
Photo Credit: Stephen Mosher
June 29, 2010
The Beat Goes On:
Texas is in the news this
week and not in a good way. Representative Louie
Gohmert stood up on the floor of the House of Representatives
to announce that terrorists were plotting to bring
pregnant "terrorist" women to the United
States to have babies thus giving these "baby
terrorists" American citizenship. These babies
would then be returned to the mother ship to be
raised to become full grown terrorists who would
return to the United States to attack us.
Don't we have enough to worry about without concocting
this far fetched xenophobic plot? We have our hands
full dealing with our own homegrown non/baby brand
of terrorism - Timothy McVeigh, the Unabomber, Eric
Rudolph, Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold of Columbine?
We seem perfectly capable of birthing our own.
June 26, 2010
It has been a truly
weird week for celebrity culture:
1. Mel Gibson and
the woman he left his wife and the mother of his
seven children for, Oksana Grigorieva, have filed
restraining orders against each other. Now who would
have thought a romance between these two darling
people would end so badly?
2. A "bachelor"
named Jake Pavelka has split from Vienna Girardi,
the woman who supposedly won his heart on the reality
tv show, The Bachelor. It seems that they
have not had sex for the last four months, the lack
of such sexual contact being explained by Jake by
either (1) he is religious or (2) Vienna is difficult.
Somehow, with what I know about men, this does not
pass the smell test. It is possible that Jake is
actually one of what the Victorians used to call
3. Some masseuse
has suddenly recalled that Al Gore asked her to
grope him back in 2006. And she is willing to confide
all the juicy details to the National Enquirer for
$1,000,000. Looking at Al Gore, I am willing to
give him the benefit of the doubt (she told the
police that Gore was a "crazed sex poodle")
and also a piece of advice: From now on pretend
you are a male doctor and have someone else in the
room with you when you are alone with a female or,
for that matter, a male masseuse (Ted Haggard anyone?).
You have the words "big paycheck" tattooed
on your forehead. And with pun intended, some masseuses
may be looking for a really big tip.
June 22, 2010
Jennifer Lopez and Marc
Rican Day Parade
June 13, 2010
Photo Credit Angelo Rivera
The Beat Goes On:
Jennifer Lopez was a guest
of honor at the Puerto Rican Day Parade. And while
"guesting of honor," she wore a white
strapless dress and a BLACK BRA.
Inquiring minds want to know:
1. If this was a
faux pas? Answer, probably not. Lopez spends way
too much on stylists to have not known that the
black bra would show.
2. If Lopez was attempting
to show her Jenny-From-the-Block side in solidarity
with her Puerto Rican brothers and sisters? Hopefully
not or they may have to rise up and bitch slap her.
3. If Lopez was trying
to create a new style sensation a la Madonna and
Lady Gaga? Hmm. As Goldilocks said, "This one
looks just right." Let's check out Marc Jacobs
for Spring 2010 to see if it took.
June 18, 2010
Late Show with David Letterman
June 17, 2010
Photo Credit: Janet Mayer / PR Photos
The Beat Goes On:
The latest mishegas out
of LaLa Land is the scandal about how that perennial
eight-grade girl Perez Hilton tweeted a upskirt
photo of Miley Cyrus who was supposedly going commando.
There is a lot of carrying on in the press about
whether Perez will be prosecuted for child porn
even if the photo was photoshopped to appear pantiless.
Well how about this idea: It should be illegal for
anyone to stick a camera up a woman's dress (minor
or not) the same way it is illegal to put a camera
in a woman's bathroom. So what if they are in public.
If someone is getting out of a car, lowering a camera
and shooting up a skirt is utterly disgusting and
should involve some jail time. So there.
Just where are those Iranian morality police with
their long thin whacking sticks when we could actually
June 13, 2010
Dear Miss Wendy,
Why do people love
New York and how can you stand to live there?
Okie from Muskogee
The world is divided
into two classes of people (among myriad other classifications
- tall/short, rich/poor), those who love New York
and those who don't. And people instinctively know
to which group they naturally belong. Babies are
born in the hinterlands, open their eyes and take
a quick look outside their cribs and are utterly
horrified to find that they are not in New York.
These misplaced babies (who tend to cry more than
other babies), spend their next few decades plotting
their relocation to Oz.
Yorkers tell similar tells of how they saw or read
about New York and knew immediately that this is
where they wanted to live (Breakfast at Tiffany's
anyone?). I saw the city for the first time when
I was fourteen years old and I was instantly smitten.
I even loved the smell of the place.
In New York, you never know what you are going to
see next. You turn a corner and there is always
some kind of surprise: new shops; new restaurants;
someone dressed in a new and fascinating way. Thia
noise and confusion turns New Yorkers on.
But this very same
noise and confusion has the exact opposite effect
on non-New York lovers. They prefer calm and predictability,
something they could never have in this city. They
would prefer to think one thought at a time, without
being distracted with thoughts such as, "Was
that purple hair I just saw?" Or, "Just
why are those angry-looking people picketing the
It is impossible
to talk people who don't love New York into loving
it. It would be easier to talk the coke machine
into taking a certified check. So there.
2010 MTV Movie Awards - Arrivals
Gibson Amphitheatre / Universal City, CA
June 6, 2010
Photo Credit: Bob Charlotte / PR Photos
Here is a You
Got It Going Girl awards to Miss Christina
Aguilera. Miss Aguilera picked the perfect Versace
dress for the MTV Movie Awards. Her dress epitomized
old Hollowed glamour but with the heavy chain belt,
she was rockin ready. Kudos to the Versace design
June 6, 2010
is a very sad article in the Daily News
about how a school in Prescott, Arizona has asked
an artist to "lighten up" the face of
a Mexican student in the school mural because motorist
were yelling racial slurs at the mural - nydailynews.com.
According to the
article, the artists reported that while they were
painting the mural, they heard comments such as:
"You're desecrating our school," "Get
the ni---- off the wall," "Get the sp--
off the wall," were common, Wall said. "The
pressure stayed up consistently," Wall said.
"We had two months of cars shouting at us."
This is sad on so
many levels: people in Arizona yelling racial slurs
at a mural on the wall of an elementary school;
the school believing the proper response to this
blatant racism was to lighten the faces on the mural;
and the Governor of Arizona still continuing to
assert that the new Arizona immigration law will
not be enforce by using racial profiling.
The Secretary General of the United Nations, Ban
Ki-moon, when speaking at a United
Nations reception for artist Ross Bleckener's
project to help children who have been victimized
by human trafficking, said that one of the solutions
was to "name and shame."
The concept of "name
and shame" was and is an excellent idea and
should be implemented here. Shame on you Prescott,
Arizona. A picture of worth a thousand words and
the picture of artists lightening the face of a
Mexican child to make a mural more acceptable to
the citizenry of Arizona is excruciatingly shameful.
June 3, 2010
The Beat Goes On:
Jon Gosselin has a new twenty-three
year old girlfriend, Ellen Ross, who is telling
friends she is not in it for the fame (the chance
to be photographed for Radaronline etc. etc.), but
truly likes thirty-three year old men with eight
children under the age of ten.
And Tiger Wood's
ex-mistress/nemesis Joslyn James truly had her feelings
and needs to hold press conferences to tell us about
how badly she was hurt by Wood's caddish behavior.
And Lindsay Lohan's father truly has her best interest
at heart when he tells all to the tabloids.
Back in Texas, we
had a saying: "Raise your feet, pardner, the
sh*t is flowing down the trough."
The Beat Goes On:
Deputy LA Prosecutor Danette
Meyers has announced to Radaronline
that as soon as she finishes her present death penalty
case, she will focus "all her energy"
on investigating whether Lindsay Lohan violated
her probabation in her DUI case (a misdemeanor).
Someone at the LA district attorney's office needs
to reign this publicity pandering lawyer in and
tell her that it is unseemly for a assistant district
attorney to attempt to raise her own profile by
talking to the tabloids about a celebrity defendant.
Whatever happened to no comment?
May 26, 2010
Ruminations on the
BP Oil Spill: So here we
are, over a month later, and the oil is still gushing
into the Gulf of Mexico at a horrifying rate estimated
to be 210,000 barrels a day and some experts say
that number is way too low.
BP still has not
been able to stop the gusher and we don't know know
when they will be able to stop the flow; they are
trying to stop up a hole that is 5,000 deep in the
This brings up the question: Just what were they
doing drilling 5,000 feet into the ocean in the
first place? I know, I know. We have cars and houses
that need heating and air conditioning and office
buildings that need to be lit, heated and air conditioned.
And we have huge trucks moving this to that and
airlines flying over our heads delivering us to
here and there and back again.
It is time to say
Halt and rework our lives so we can live without
putting up with all that craziness in the Middle
East and/or digging holes out in the middle of the
Atlantic and creating the worst man-made disaster
We need to become
1. Smaller houses and apartments that are tricked
out like yachts - built up the walls and super clever.
Quit buying houses to fit your furniture. Buy furniture
to fit a small chic home. Utilize wall units everywhere,
eliminating the need for a lot of free standing
furniture which can use up a entire wall without
using up the entire wall.
a. New homes should
be built with cross ventilation and high hip roofs
so they can be cooled with ceiling fans for a few
months every years. And yes, that does mean we will
need those old iron security grills or alarm systems.
b. Get rid of yards.
Yards require huge amounts of water, fertilizer
and pest killers which pollute the ground water.
They also require energy to mow. Have small decorative
yards with lots of ground cover that can survive
with relatively little water and use the back yards
to grow vegetables. Hey, the dirt needs to start
pulling its weight.
c. Bring back clothes
lines. No, not for all the laundry, but there is
nothing like sheets dried in the sun and it is free.
d. Put high efficiency
window AC units in bedrooms and turn off the central
air conditioning at night during the summer. Ditto
for high efficiency portable heaters in the winter.
e. Use water coolers
in dry climates. They are surpringly cool and cheap
2. Smaller cars.
A lot of people would be happy to drive those little
bitty cars if they were not worried about being
run over by a SUV. So get the SUV's off the roads
by taxing the hell out of them and create inner
city/town small car zones which do not allow any
cars over a certain weight and mandate that delivery
trucks only deliver from midnight to five in the
3. Reorganizing our
cities so people can live close to work.
a. Fix the public
school system so all school are good and people
with children are not forced to move to Timbuktu
so their children can attend a decent school. Besides,
we need to fix the schools anyway if becuase we
need a highly educated populace if we are ever going
to solve our problems.
b. Building sidewalks
and bike paths in our newly reorganized cities.
Put bikes racks everywhere and keep the bikes off
the sidewalks and streets for God's sake.
c. Big companies
need to set up satellite offices that are close
to where their employees live. Walking distance
would be good.
4. Rework all office buildings so the windows can
open. Businesses run air conditioning when the outside
temperature is in the 60's because they have to.
5. Put solar panels and wind mills
everywhere and if someone can make wind mills look
nicer, please do that too.
6. Eat produce that is grown locally,
eliminating the need to transport it thousands of
7. When you fly, take less, saving
your back and reducing the amount of fuel the airline
will need to use. They make these really nice rolling
bags that fit under the seat in front of you. You
won't hurt your back lifting the bag above your
head and the airplane will be lighter.
8. Eliminate as much plastic packaging
and bottles as possible. Those aluminum water bottles
are a good start, but someone needs to figure out
how to get rid of a lot more. I am one person and
every three of four days, I have a huge garbage
sack full of recycling. Ditto to eliminating all
those catalogues that come in the mail.
9. Think. When you buy something, think about what
it will cost the world for you to own it. Will your
new clothes have to be dry cleaned? Will your snow
mobile hurt the tundra and use gas? Think - if I
buy/use this item, will my grand children have to
do without something they really need (like a planet)
because I used more than my fair share of the world's
10. And last but not least, would
someone please design a pair of dressy sexy women's
shoes that a woman can wear and walk a quarter mile
in comfort. Do it. You will be a millionaire.
May 20, 2010
Lindsey Lohan has missed a court date (she was supposed
to be in court in Los Angeles on Thursday morning
for a hearing about her probation for DUI) because
she could not get back from Cannes. Lohan has given
the excuse that someone stole her passport so she
could not come home. This excuse does not pass the
smell test. Lohan had gone to Cannes to promote
her new film, one in which she plays Linda Lovelace
of Deep Throat fame. But she left for Cannes
last weekend knowing full well that the Iceland
volcano was still disrupting flights and that the
judge was already "on her case" because
she had not complied with the terms of her probation
by attending alchohol education classes in a timely
It is easy to feel
sorry for Lohan because her father is such a media
chasing ass, but leaving for Cannes in the first
place was the height of poor judgment. She may have
thought she was promoting her career, but by even
being in Cannes under these circumstances, she looks
like a fool who does not think the rules of the
world apply to her and that is not good publicity.
Lohan is a lady who
would do well to read her own press.
Would you leave for
Europe for the weekend if you knew that if you were
not back in LA by Wednesday to cram in some more
alcohol education classes before your Thursday court
date, you might very well be thrown in jail? In
JAIL, I say? You would really have to be inebriated
to not be utterly horrified by that idea.
So now she has to
wear an alcohol monitoring bracelet and submit to
random drug tests. It is so easy to see where this
story will end. Lohan is one lady who should have
done everything humanly possible to avoid wearing
that bracelet and taking those tests, tests she
is bound to fail.
She may never again
by a movie star but her life is certainly fodder
for a screen play.
May 17, 2010
The Beat Goes On:
Rima Fakih, a beautiful Arab
American woman from Detroit, has won the Miss USA
contest. And now the scandal mongerers are trying
to get everyone riled up because she won a pole
dancing contest that was hosted by a radio station.
Excuse, me. They teach pole dancing at my gym. Just
who is around these days who is so sheltered they
would be scandalized by that story. The girl was
clothed, she is Miss USA not Miss America, and besides
she won the pole dancing contest just like she won
the title of Miss USA.
Ho Hum! Ho Hum! Ho
May 15, 2010
people please quit talking about Supreme Court nominee
Elena Kagan's sexuality (Newsweek.com).
It is bad enough that every young Hollywood star
Montag and Lauren Conrad?) and not so young
but still cute (Chelsea
Lately) has a sex tape, do we really need the
visual in our minds of any Supreme Court candidate
or justice having sex? Men and women who are busy
saving the world (and are over 50) do not have the
time to be plastic surgery junkies and gym rats,
so they are totally ineligible to star in the "movies
in our mind." So cut it out already.
someone please revive the The
and cast Michael Lohan so he can have something
to do with his time other than bash his daughter?
Here are my suggestions for a superb cast to create
the perfect setting for Lohan: his frenemy Jon Gosselin;
Jesse James's mistress Michelle McGee; Tiger Wood's
nemesis Joslyn James; conservative mouthpieces Ann
Coulter and Glen Beck (to create the necessary conflict);
and media-chasing lawyer Gloria Allred (to file
the lawsuits created by the conflict). They will
all be busy filming and running around town with
new reality friends like Snookie, JWOW and their
twins-separated-at-birth, The Real Housewives
of New Jersey,giving us all a quick break from
their constant braying.
May 5, 2010
The Beat Goes On:
Gloria Allred, who used to
be a feminist lawyer, has turned into a hoochie-mamma-carrying-ambulance-chaser.
Allred has recently sat at the side of porn-star
and alleged Tiger Woods mistress Joslyn James why
Miss James boohooed about how her feelings were
hurt when Tiger treated her like she was a porn
star and did not apologize for "leading her
Allred is also incensed that the Charlotte, North
Carolina Ritz Carlton Hotel cancelled Miss James
hotel reservation when they realized that she would
be staying in their hotel at the same time as Tiger
Woods who was playing in the Quail Hollow Championship.
York Daily News). Could the Ritz also be treating
Miss James like a porn star?
now Allred is helping an alleged mistress of David
Boreanaz settle"her claims." According
Allred called Boreanaz's attorney to discuss "
the possible resolution of my client's legal claims
against Mr. Boreanaz by mediation."
What claims? Unless there is a
child involved, there are no claims to be had. Boreanaz
is a public figure so unless this mistress is both
deaf and dumb (well, she probably is dumb), she
knew he was married.
Hey ladies, your fifteen minutes
are over so would you please fish your panties and
bras out of the punch bowl and go home?
May 1, 2010
The Beat Goes On:
In an effort to stem the
swell of criticism that has been justly thrown at
the state, Arizona has passed an amendment to their
new immigration law (New
York Times): "The changes include one strengthening
restrictions against using race or ethnicity as
the basis for questioning by the police and inserting
those same restrictions in other parts of the law.
Another change states that questions of immigration
status would follow a law enforcement officer’s
stopping, detaining or arresting a person while
enforcing another law. The earlier law had referred
to a “contact” with police. [But] Another
change specifies that possible violations of local
civil ordinances can trigger questioning on immigration
So they gave with
one hand and took away with another. Now law enforcement
have to have suspicion that a crime has been committed
before they can question someone about their immigration
status, but that crime can be an overflowing garbage
can. So from now on, Arizona residents of Mexican
descent not only have to fear being harassed for
looking Mexican if they are stopped the the policie
for a burned out tail light, they must also be sure
their homes don't look "illegal."
Beat Goes On: Here is a fun
bit from Radaronline.com.It
seems that Oscar-nominated actress Gabourey Sidibe's
mom (Alice Tan Ridley) sings in the New York City
subways and she has just auditioned for America’s
Got Talent. What a great story!
P. S. If you live
or visit New York, check out the subway performers.
They are incredible - not the illegal ones who perform
in the cars (although sometimes they can be quite
good), but the licensed ones who perform on the
platforms. Check it out.
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